Are you trying to get your girlfriend back but she is ignoring you? Perhaps you called her but she didn't pick up the phone? So you sent her text messages and you didn't receive any reply either.
What's happening? How can you get a girlfriend back when she is avoiding you like a plague.
Well, there are many possilbe reasons why your girlfriend may be avoiding you. Most probably, both of you have just broken up and your girlfriend is not ready to talk to you yet. She may be afraid of not knowing what to say to you, which explains why she is not answering your phone call or replying your text messages.
If that is the case, don't keep on calling her. Don't keep on sending her text messages. If you continue to do that, you will only annoy her and cause her to avoid you even more. In fact, it makes it look like you are desperate and needy.
The solution is to give her some time and space. For the first month after a break up, don't contact her. Leave her alone. Respect her need for time and space. She will appreciate it. In fact, you are also doing yourself a favor.
You are giving her the opportunity to miss you. If you are always clinging onto her, always calling her, always text messaging her, there is no chance for her to miss you. However, if you suddenly cut off all contact, she will start to wonder where you are and what you are up to.
In order to get a girlfriend back, you cannot act needy or desperate. Instead, you need to get her to miss you and wonder about you.
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